Friday, August 31, 2018

The Making of Asian America

By Erika Lee

This is a very nice book for referring to Indian American immigration. It has a lot of history about immigrants who came in early 1900s and how they were treated. Though a lot of it is about China, Vietnam and other parts of Asia, there is enough information about Indian immigration that can be useful.


Thursday, August 30, 2018

Big Little Lies

Never realized KG moms are capable of this much of politics, in-fighting and yet can be so supportive. Of course the main theme of the book is domestic violence but it is woven with a great creativity. The characters feel real, the incidents do not feel forced, and the story moves with a great sense of time. The author has created tantalizing suspense by giving out just small amount of information at the end of each chapter. Very creative idea.

Overall, it is a very good book and a page-turner. But at times it feels like a soap opera and filled with gossip. It also got made into a TV movie which is very very good.

Monday, November 23, 2015

Billionaire's Apprentice

By Anita Raghvan

This is a good documentation of the insider trading in late nineties and early 2000's where Rajat Gupta, Raj Rajratnam and Anil Kumar were involved. It is interesting from many angles, it is about the rise of Indians in America, it is about how India was when the first generation migrated to the US, it is also about the rise (and fall) of the wall street and how it was played by many. If you are interested in Indians, in finance, and how a crime like insider trading is investigated, this book is for you. It has the human side with its generous spirit and greed, about families, love, and loss. Though it is written in neutral tone, you can not help but feel warm towards people like Rajat Gupta and wonder how even a grown man can be influenced by strong peers, inner insecurities despite worldly success, and slippery slope of the world of finance.  


The Girl On the Train

This is a thriller and yet it was hard to put down. But somehow the characters were never felt real. They - all the three women - were drinking, flirting, and meddling with others lives really. Especially Rachel, the protagonist was hard for me to understand. She was clearly getting into problems as if by choice and looks like she would rather borrow money from her old mother than really look for work though she has been unemployed for such a long time. All the three women, it felt, were lost morally and otherwise in their lives. May be I am making too much of a moral judgment here but for me to feel their pain, or their struggle, I needed to understand where they were coming from. I just felt like smacking them out of their self-important role and get real through out the book.

On the positive side, it is a page-turner and has an interesting ending. I still have hard time figuring out why a book like this would be on best seller list though. 

Thursday, May 21, 2015

What Young India Wants

What Young India Wants by Chetan Bhagat

I have just started reading it and I like his approach, style, and thought provoking ideas. I will wait till I finish to give my final opinion but I do hope that young people and politicians in India read and take these ideas seriously.

It is frustrating to see India struggle on issues that should have been long gone.During my extended stay in India this winter, the unruly traffic (because no one wants to pay attention to traffic lights), the uncontrolled honking (often without any real reason and by sheer force of habit), the complete disregard for others on the road, the most annoying habit of spitting after eating paan, I found such small annoyances put together makes you slightly irritated all the time. It is sad, I think, that most people who live there may not even recognize - like a smell that you may not smell anymore if you are there for a long time - this underlying irritation and take this behavior for granted.

Add to that the noise and air pollution that has also become so much a part of life. It seems that locals have stopped either complaining about this - even noticing it - or trying to change it. And this is in a city that is one of the better ones in India - Ahmedabad.  Granted a lot has improved since the olden days, however a lot has also gone worse simply because of the increase in population and increase in number of vehicles on the street.

I mentioned that there is absolutely no consideration to others. It is obvious everywhere. Here is one example: Once we were trying to get out of our home in a car, when a young lady in her twenties came from the opposite direction in her car, stopped her car in front of a vegetable vendor to buy her vegetables, did not want to get out of her car to do her purchases so blocked the narrow street completely for anyone else to pass by. She took her merry time haggling with the vendor sitting in the car and when our driver asked her to move so that we can proceed, she got extremely annoyed and started saying bad words as if it was our fault that we wanted to go somewhere. This young lady had no qualms about taking everyone else's time.

Such incidents happens every day to almost every one and yet no one stops to think what can be done. Chetan Bhagat is rightly saying that such behavior can only be corrected as a community. Individuals are helpless because if you are the only one considering every one else, you will never get anywhere and therein lies the problem. Each individual knows this at the bottom of their heart but has come to realize that if you cannot beat the system, then join it.

So how can we change the system? Are politicians responsible to change it? Should police or any other authority try to change this? I truly, for India's sake, hope not. Though it looks like an easy solution, in the long run, it could be the worst solution. Giving control to anyone else, besides yourself is a dangerous thing to do on two accounts: first, it would mean that if for some reason the authority is not there, we will go back to our old behavior - may be even worse than before because the spring has been pushed too much. But second more dangerous reason is that once you give power to others to direct your behavior, the power can be abused anytime. Remember power is the fundamental reason for corruption.

My fellow Indians, that is why the only solution to all these problems is to change our own behavior because we want to  - not because some one else tells us to, not because it is dictated by some political leader but because it is the right thing to do. The sooner we do this, the better we all will be.

Can we at least try?


Thursday, April 16, 2015

Walking on Water


Not knowing that this is the last one in the series, I read this book but I must say that I really enjoyed it very much. It is a beautifully written book though I felt at times that the pace was slow at times. I loved the way he showed his relationship with his father and his father's account of family life.

It is a very nice book and I would recommend it to anyone to check it out. I am now looking forward to reading his other writings and especially previous books of this series. 





Thursday, September 4, 2014

Real Happiness

"Real Happiness: The Power of Meditation" by Sharon Salzberg

You can say that I am on meditation streak right now! Some how or other one book is leading to another one so the last couple of books I have read were the suggestions by Dan Harris in his book "10% happier". It is interesting because I am usually not thinking of meditation from a Buddhist style. Growing up in a Hindu household and listening to many swamis and gurus about mediation, I have a certain image of what it is and what should be done. Granted a lot of it is confusing because there are many ways to achieve the same goal.

In any case, "Real Happiness" is really a very nice book for novice as well as people who have tried meditating earlier and have either given up or are confused about different obstacles that come along the way. Salzberg has explained meditation really well for a lay person, holding hands and taking you along. I felt like I learned a lot from reading this book even though I have always felt that I know enough about meditation. All I need to do is try with a disciplined approach. This book along with the other two that I read earlier (read my previous blog entries), has, for now, given me the push I needed to start my own practice. Let us hope it continues.

"Happiness is available....please help yourself" (The last line in the book which is actually a quote from Thich Nhat Hanh)